The Largest City Parks in the United States
Below is a list of the 15 largest city parks and preserves in the United States.
Four out of five
When most people think of Phoenix, they think of endless suburban sprawl. And, certainly, that's part of the story. But here's something that many are surprised to learn:
Four of the five largest city parks are located in metro Phoenix.
As in, municipal parks that are located entirely within city boundaries and are managed by city parks department staff1.
But that's not all...
The Phoenix metro area is also encircled by the nation's largest county park system2, which includes 12 regional county parks comprising about 120,000 acres. The 315-mile Maricopa Trail (and its sister 120-mile Sun Circle Trail) also encircles the metro area by connecting many of these county parks.
And of course, metro Phoenix also borders the famed Tonto National Forest (the ninth largest in the country at over 2.9 million acres), the nearly 500,000-acre Sonoran Desert National Monument, and several million acres of BLM public lands.
You may only think sprawl when you think of Phoenix, but you should probably also think parks, public lands, and preserves, too.
| Park Name | Acres | City, ST | Est3 |
|---|---|---|---|
| McDowell Sonoran Preserve | 30,580 | Scottsdale, AZ | 1994 |
| South Mountain Park/Preserve | 16,281.8 | Phoenix, AZ | 1924 |
| Phoenix Sonoran Preserve | 9,612.4 | Phoenix, AZ | 1998 |
| Cullen Park4 | 9,269.8 | Houston, TX | 1984 |
| Skyline Regional Park | 8,700 | Buckeye, AZ | 2016 |
| George Bush Park | 7,800 | Houston, TX | 19455 |
| North Mountain/Shaw Butte Preserve | 7,500 | Phoenix, AZ | 1972 |
| Mission Trails Regional Park6 | 7,220 | San Diego, CA | 1974 |
| Jefferson Memorial Forest | 6,218 | Louisville, KY | 1945 |
| Forest Park | 5,157 | Portland, OR | 1948 |
| Piestewa Peak/Dreamy Draw Preserve | 4,857 | Phoenix, AZ | 19557 |
| Lake Houston Wilderness Park | 4,786.6 | Houston, TX | 2006 |
| Eagle Creek Park | 4,766 | Indianapolis, IN | 1972 |
| Far North Bicentennial Park | 4,500 | Anchorage, AK | 1976 |
| Griffith Park | 4,282 | Los Angeles, CA | 1896 |
Sprawling cities = sprawling parks and preserves?
As you can see, the Phoenix and Houston areas absolutely dominate the listings.
That's interesting, as those two cities (along with Los Angeles) are probably the poster children for "urban sprawl" in the US. But the ability to expand outward also provides an interesting opportunity to protect undeveloped land in a way that more dense and established cities like New York, Boston, or even Chicago, would struggle to do.
At the same time, Phoenix was a bit of an outlier. It purchased South Mountain Park from the federal government way back in 1924, just a dozen years after statehood and while the city was still quite small—about 5.1 square miles with a population of 38,500, though growing as fast as ever. Even with the property still 7.5 miles away from city limits, city leaders feared that this was their only opportunity to preserve the best nearby recreational areas. They ended up purchasing an area about 5 times larger than the city itself.
Houston's largest parks, on the other hand, are derived from lands enclosed by federal reservoirs, presumably for flood control and drainage, as the city is located in bayou country. I don't know the specific history at play, but surmise that its large parks were created because the reservoir land would otherwise be "unused" for commercial purposes; whereas in Phoenix's case, it was a very concerted effort to proactively protect prime locations from development.
Note: while I've done my best to be accurate in this post (I've even contacted several cities above for accurate numbers, though I never seem to get a reply), it's surprisingly difficult to find simple, accurate answers. Part of that is because land acquisitions continue (yay!), and older information isn't always updated. But my main purpose in this post is pointing out how many large parks and preserves metro Phoenix has, so even if a few numbers have changed, you still get the picture. If you find an error, please send it to me so I can update this!
Last updated: May 23, 2024
Why you should have a website
There are many, many reasons why you should have you own website.
Here are just a few of them:
- Unlike social media platforms that come and go, a website can be your permanent home on the internet
- Your friends will always have a way to contact you
- You can list all your social media accounts on one page so people can follow you where you're currently active
- Writing about what you like is the best way to make new friends online
- Everyone can see your stuff, whether or not they have an account on a specific platform
- You own your website, so it can't be taken away from you against your will (unlike losing a social media account)
- You can import and repost everything that's important to you
- It becomes an incredible repository of your life
- You can simply direct someone to a post that answers the question you're so so so very tired of answering
- It's a great way to highlight your professional proficiencies in a way that can help you get new jobs
- No matter how shitty a social media site gets, you'll always have a place to post
- You don't have to fit inside artificial character counts
- You can display your photos in the format and aspect ratio you want, not however the app-of-the-moment wants
- You can post whatever you want and not worry about being moderated for some reason
- There's no algorithm you have to somehow please
- It's a home for your hobbies
- Creating is better than consuming
- You can collect email addresses and send emails directly to your subscribers
- You're allowed to link to whatever sites you want to
- Unlike the firehose of social media, what you write isn't immediately lost into the ether—you can display any post(s) as prominently as you'd like, no matter how old they are
- You can design your site however you'd like without regard to any platform's limitations
- It's a creative outlet for things you're passionate about
- Writing is a great way to think more deeply about a topic
- Curate interesting links you want to keep
- Write a scathing and detailed review of that company that totally screwed you over
- Celebrate your accomplishments! Let the world see what you have done
- You can make your own custom linktree
- Escape the shallow swiping dating platforms with a webpage of who you are and what you're looking for in a partner
- Earn some goodwill by offering the solution to an obscure problem that took you forever to figure out
- It's the central hub of your online identity, however multi-faceted you want it to be
- Have your own branded email address—using whatever usernames you want!
- Promote your website every time you use your email address
- You can create a lasting "body of work" that just can't happen on social media
- Document your travel adventures in a more coherent and lasting way
- Getting random emails from people who your blog has helped is pretty rad
- If you have things you want to sell, you can easily integrate that into your own website
- You can profit off of your own website, not create value for some external company
- You can design your site to look entirely unique and reflective of your own personality, unlike social media platforms
- When you post on a website, you can link to that same post, forever, on whatever social media platforms come and go
- You can design your site to outlive you (if you want), especially if you add your posts to the Internet Archive
- With subdomains, you can have an infinite number of website URLs with just one domain name
- It's way easier to look back at your blog posts than it is to look back over your social media posts
- It's fun, surprisingly fun actually, to get visitors from across the world
- It guarantees a high degree of online independence
- It's way easier and cheaper than you think, but offers incredible ROI value
- There's no algorithm to "punish" you for not posting on a regular schedule or following trends or any of the other hoops you have to jump through so your friends can see your posts
- You can send people to your website, not some billionaire's company website
Ok, that's enough for now. Go get yourself a website! Register a domain (not sure what name to use? start with your name). Connect a simple blogging platform.
Just get started. Thank me later.
The easiest ways to start your own personal website
Back in the early days of blogging, launching your own website required quite a bit of knowledge and a quite long list of steps to complete. If you didn't know what to do, it felt a bit intimidating. I know, I learned how to do it—mostly through trial and (lots of) error.
Part of that angst was not just in setting up the server correctly, but also in not knowing exactly how to style your webpages to make them look the way you want them to. It required research, learning, tinkering, and troubleshooting. Not an impossible task, but definitely a task.
That's one of the reasons that social media platforms took off. The early platforms made it easy to just...post, and got lucky by doing so right at the crucial moment that smartphones became a thing (this was before they started enshittifying everyone's experience, of course).
These days, however, there are a whole bunch of super-simple platforms that make it as just as easy to start a blog as signing up for a new social media account. But with all the countless advantages owning your own website provides.
Simple blog sites
If you're used to social media and you want something dead simple to use, these are the best platforms to start with. They offer a very simple editing experience—just the basics—that allows you to focus on writing, and not get hung up on how the page will look. You can usually add some static pages, categories or tags, and they offer an rss feed too. All the basics you need for a solid website! There are probably other similar options, but these are the ones I know about and have investigated a bit.
Take a quick look at each, but don't worry too much about your choice. You can't go wrong with any of these options. Just choose one, register your own domain, and get started.
Pika
Pika is my top choice for a simple, easy-to-use blogging service. You can use it right out the box without any additional fuss, but it also offers a number of additional customization options. The company behind it is really fun. Pika also offers a really interesting guestbook feature, which includes the ability to leave drawings!
Scribbles
Super easy to use, you get three sites for $5/mo or $50/year. Not much customization, so you won't spend time tweaking instead of just writing.
Blot
For $5/mo, Blot turns a folder into a website. Files in the folder become posts and pages on your website. This all works a bit differently than the other platforms, but is a great solution for many.
Bear
Free, barebones (bearbones? just the bear necessities?) blogging platform that lets you post without worrying about design, though a number of themes have popped up and you can customize quite a bit. You can even connect your own domain name, which is astoundingly cool for a free tier. The best part of Bear is the community and the trending posts directory, which is powered by an "upvote" on each blog post. Their fun logo is some weird text: ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ
Write.as
Another great option if you're interested in a simple design that focuses on your words more than design. With a paid account for $6/mo, you also get newsletter and photo hosting functionality too.
Super interesting options
Micro.Blog
Micro.Blog is a combination of social media and a blog and is unlike anything else you've used. You can cross-post to a bunch of platforms, including mastodon, bluesky, medium, flickr and more. It's also its own social community and offers a bunch of other interesting features and dedicated apps. And if you subscribe to the "Pro" version for $10/mo, you can also host your own podcast and newsletter. I'm a member.
omg.lol
Ok look, this site is hard to describe. It's exactly what was fun about the early web. I'm a member. You can build a simple blog here, but you do need to follow some simple instructions, at least when you first start. It's only $20/yr and comes with some interesting features—a statuslog, mastodon instance, and profile/links page...among other things. A related website platform called Neato is currently under development.
Publii
Publii is a free desktop app is a "static site generator" that builds a set of website files that you then upload to the web (which is just a single click after you set it up). You can connect it to a variety of online web servers—several of which are free to use—and publish your site there. There are also some free and paid themes and plugins to extend your site's design and functionality.
Why simple websites are awesome
While more complex web platforms (I'm looking at you, Wordpress) are extremely popular, they also over-complicate things for many users.
Most people don't need even a fraction of those features, and that complexity comes at a cost.
Not only is it harder to focus on just writing, but the unused functionality also costs more because it requires more server resources, invites mischief from spammers and hackers, and can be just plain annoying to constantly manage. I know...this site has been running Wordpress since it launched.
If I was starting completely fresh today, I'd choose one of the options above to get started, even if I moved to something more complex later.
Tell me about your new site!
Sold? Go sign up somewhere, write a post, and tell me about it. I'll be your first reader!
Pages you should have on your personal website
Personal websites are the best way to have a home on the internet.
While every site is—and should be—a personal expression of its owner, it can also be useful to adopt some standard pages that visitors often benefit from. Each of these pages is best found at the root directory, which is why I list them as /pagename—a simple default that others don't need to search for.
Here are my suggestions:
/About
Just about every site seems to have an /about page. This tends to be a static, rarely-updated page where you say a bit about yourself, usually using broad biographical strokes with a few hints into your personality. You toss up a head shot and call it a day. You've already seen countless of these, so you know exactly what these look like.
/Now
Even though nearly every site has an /about page, it's rarely useful for learning more about what's happening in your life right now.
That's where a /now page comes in. I was first introduced to this concept by Derek Sivers, and it's an idea that's quickly caught on. The idea is to share what you're generally up to these days—what you might tell a friend you haven't seen in awhile. It's not too granular like social media, but not to high-level like an /about page—maybe some updates on your life, new projects adopted, goals achieved, big upcoming trips. This is a page to update regularly.
Some folks (👋) have even started archiving these /now updates at a /then page.
/Follow
As many of us have several different sites, projects, social media accounts, newsletters, podcasts, and so forth, it can be useful to have a single page where someone can follow your work.
I suggest that you bring all of this information together into a single page: URLs, RSS feeds, newsletter subscription forms. One single page with all the ways that someone can follow all your stuff. This might be the most useful page on your entire website!
/Contact
This is a simple page that explains how to contact you. This might include a contact form, and/or email address and/or phone number or how to get a hold of you on some other messaging app. Simple but useful stuff.
/Interests
An /interests page helps others get to know you a bit better. It's a way to show what you're really into, especially what hobbies you enjoy, what fandoms you might participate in, and any other big favorite things that you have (make sure to link to any relevant posts, categories, or tags on your site). This acts as a solicitation of sorts to connect when a visitor discovers you both like the same weird shit.
/Uses
Online reviews suck these days—just completely useless garbage. A /uses page is a way to describe what products and services you own, use, and rely on. This gives others a chance to ask you about products they may be considering, and give them ideas about things they might like using too.
/Blogroll
Once upon a time, the primary way you discovered cool new websites was a list of links—called a blogroll—on the sidebar of someone's site, indicating the site the author followed most closely. For some reason, they fell out of fashion in blog designs. It's time to bring them back.
/Support
Many sites these days offer a way to support micro-payments or subscriptions to support the site author. If this is you, then adding a simple explanatory page at /support is an easy way to lay out the various ways that folks can support your efforts, whether that's a direct micropayment or using an affiliate (foreshadowing 🙊) link.
/Ideas
Some people (👋) have lots of ideas for random projects they'd like to work on. An /ideas page is a stake in the ground, planting the seed in the hopes that someone will help you turn the idea into reality.
👉 (my /ideas page is actually located at Free Ideas)
/Save
If you use affiliate programs, this is a great spot to put them all on one page. Start off with your disclosure and toss all the links and coupon codes into one place. Add a table of contents at the top and use anchor tags to make it easier for your friends to support you when they sign up for a new service or buy a specific product.
/Colophon
A /colophon page describes the nuts and bolts of your website: what tool(s) you used to build it, how you host it, and any other details that visitors might be interested in (fonts, themes, icon sets, etc). You might include some of this info on your /uses page.
/Privacy
If you're collecting personal information from visitors, then you should have a page describing what you're doing with that data. Put it at /privacy, preferably in simple language that anyone can understand. (btw, big kudos to you if you don't collect any info!)
The story of my epic quest to visit all 419 National Park units
This is a twitter thread I posted back in April 2022 outlining the story of my national parks quest. I haven't changed much of the formatting, so this will resemble a twitter thread and not a traditional blog post. Perhaps I'll edit it in the future, but for now, this will have to do.
Here's the story of my epic quest to visit all 419 National Park units.
- how this huge endeavor actually unfolded
- the twists and turns of the journey—and why I nearly abandoned it halfway thru
- the surprising lesson I learned at the end

Get comfortable, because this is going to be a long-ass thread. But it's required for the story of how this all progressed from its inception to the finish line.
When you're done reading, you'll have a better insight into what a big quest like this really looks like.
The idea for a parks quest probably got started in 1998 after a backpacking trip to Sequoia/Kings Canyon.
My girlfriend Kim and I were in college at the time, so a national park camping trip was really the only vacation we could afford. We already enjoyed hiking & camping...
...so visiting a famous national park—or many of them—seemed like a great idea.
After a Yosemite trip in 1999, we sorta adopted the quest, limiting it to the "named" National Parks (was it 54?) at the time.
By then, I had been to 16 park units, nearly all of which were in AZ.

The Yosemite trip was our anniversary gift to each other. We wanted a trip but couldn't afford both that + gifts.
This started a sacred annual tradition—national park trips for our anniversary—that continued thru out our relationship, and became an important aspect of the quest.
We did a cheap road trip in 2001 to Petrified Forest and added on some nearby park units—El Morro & El Malpais—in large part because we could camp there.
It was the first trip I took to national park units I hadn't heard of before. It'd end up being the first of many such trips.
My initial progress was pretty slow, and by 2003, my total stood at only 43. But I had already visited some notable parks, like Yosemite, Zion, Bryce, Rainier, Olympic, Death Valley & J-Tree, along with other park units in adjacent states.
They were all cheap camping road trips.

It was sometime around this period that the quest goal changed.
Originally, it was all the named National Parks. Then I added National Monuments. A little while later, it became ALL the NPS units, except for NRAs—which I considered "just damned rivers" (sic).
2004 was my first big parks year, hitting 16 units. It was punctuated by an anniversary road trip to Yellowstone (where I proposed to Kim), which got us 14 units alone.
We also did an Arches trip with friends that fall, and hit White Sands in conjunction with an ASU bowl game.

I hit another dozen or so units in 2005, mostly because I added on some vacation time to a work trip I took to DC.
If you visit DC and don't come away with far more park unit visits than seems possible, you're doing something wrong—the city is simply littered with them! 😂

2006 was another solid year of park questing, though this time, I didn't get ANY new DC units. 🤦♂️
But we organized trips up the CA/OR coast and one following several NPS Historic Trails that marked off a lot. By this point, every family visit included a park visit along the way.


By the end of 2006, we were at 84, which seemed damn impressive to us. All of our out-of-state trips were national park trips. We didn't have any specific completion goals, but just kept trying to see more and more parks. We figured we'd finish at some point in retirement, maybe.
2007 featured 2 big parks trips. First was Kim's 30th bday, which was a surprise trip to DC. We did all the things. More importantly we did a 10-year anniversary road trip, which is among my best trips ever. It was 8700 miles & 36 parks!
Our final tally: a whopping 45(!!) parks.


We got married in Yosemite, but our honeymoon plans in Canadian Rockies got crunked last minute. So instead we drove east to hit parks in AR, MS, AL, GA, SC, NC, KY, MO—planning as we went. Here's the 1st digital map of my progress, updated after the 2008 "post-wedding roadtrip."

Prior to this, we had just kept a text list of completed parks. We didn't even list the ones we still needed; that was too long of a list. But after marking off 45 parks in 2007 and another 45 in 2008...well, things had shifted. We were—somehow—nearing halfway done. Holy shit!
Our map was looking impressive.
And now, we started circling possible trips in the blank spots of the map.
And started considering trips without a big "anchor" park—the must-see park unit that we centered our excitement around.
And strategized about how to "finish" regions.
Funny side note: because I had specifically NOT included NRAs in my quest (damned river), we drove to—but skipped—Bighorn Canyon in WY/MT, orphaning the unit.
I'd later very much regret that, as it took a "cannonball run" road trip from PHX a decade later to finally mark it off.

The quest became an increasingly important & central thing to us around this time. We were already known as the couple who had this big goal to visit all the parks, and it was how people introduced us to new people.
Sharing this quest was an important part of our relationship.
And then, the unimaginable happened: we split up the next year. 😱
It nearly ended my national parks quest.
I mean, how could I continue on by myself? It seemed unthinkable. No way. It would never be the same. Game over.
I started dating someone the next year, and we took a road trip to some national parks—not for my quest, but because we wanted to hike there together. To the chagrin of both her and my ex-wife, I weaseled in some new park units. 😬
Hmm. I wasn't sure how I felt about it either.
The next year, I decided to reclaim the quest as solely my own. I scheduled my first significant solo national parks trip, flying into Charleston and working my way down to Florida. I was apprehensive about whether it'd ever really be *mine* or not.
But the trip was a blast.

So it WAS mine!
The next few yrs were a mix of solo national park trips and ones I'd take with a girlfriend. In 2012, I flew into KC for a family reunion in CO so I could drive across KS for parks, and later tackled MI/MN/WI with a gf. In 2013, I did the VA/SC/NC + OH parks solo

On that Ohio trip, I arrived before First Ladies NHS opened, and decided to count up all the park units I had visited thus far.
I decided to hold up a sign indicating which park number I was on—a tradition I'd continue at each subsequent park.
Wish I'd started prior to 268! 🤦♂️

At this point, my parks quest was something I was going to actually complete! I wasn't sure when that would be, but finishing was no longer a distant "maybe."
But, I got heavily involved in a local backpacking group—and suddenly all my time off went towards that, not new parks.

That was an amazing time for me, and I wouldn't trade those trips or friends for anything. I was also in midst of a big stressful transition in my career that required me to radically cut expenses & forgo a salary for 9 mos.
Which meant an incredible drought for my parks quest.

TWO parks?!! That's it? Just two? Two new parks in two full years?! WTF...
And the start of 2016 wasn't looking any better.
In March I decided to take a bad-for-the-checkbook trip to the Deep South so I could visit at least SOME parks that year. Broke, I slept in my rental car.
Jen and I had been dating for three months now. She posed a question to me: would I go on a surprise trip, where I didn't know the destination? I said sure.
This is a GREAT story, but I'll skip retelling it here. But we ended up in Puerto Rico & USVI, marking off more parks.
And then, we got word that Jen would have a month-long work detail in DC. We hadn't been dating long, so she offered to come back to visit me. But I had a better idea: why don't I go with you instead?
We scheduled a weekend in Boston to do some parks before her detail started...
...with the idea that I'd join her in DC and start looking for a (much needed) new job while there, taking advantage of the free hotel room. When I needed to interview, I'd simply call the trip done and fly home. And we'd do some fun East coast city stuff on weekends until then.
Well, I applied for a job or two—and waited perhaps a day—before bailing to rent a car and do a few days away hitting some parks in western PA 😂🤷♂️
I quickly landed an intriguing consulting job (no interview needed) that week, but told them I needed some time before I started.
So, for her entire work detail, I spent the weekends hitting parks with her in Boston, NYC, & Philly—and spending the weekdays camping in a rental car, voraciously visiting parks on my own.
I was planning each day as I went, and started calling it #MyNationalParksMonth.
I did stay in town on her bday week, meeting her at a new brewery after each workday and enjoying the weekend together in Shenandoah & Harpers Ferry.
But for a trip that was originally supposed to be about not being apart too long, that was all we saw of each other. Whoopsie! 🤣
We joke about that now, but Jen was tremendously supportive throughout this epic trip.
As someone with her own big quest, she also understood this unique moment: how often would the stars in my life align like this again?
The opportunity was just too good to pass up. Carpe diem!
Her detail was ending, but...I decided I wasn't done yet. She flew home, and I postponed that new gig even longer so I could stay 3 more weeks to finish all the Eastern parks
It was a terrible financial decision, but a great life decision! A bold move, but one I'm grateful for.


On the flight home, I added up all the new parks. I was at 94 for the year—a year I had originally worried might be zero.
And it was the 100th anniversary of the NPS. I needed to visit only a handful of more parks to have visited 100 parks in 100 days to celebrate 100 years!
And so I made return visits that week to the AZ parks that had helped inspire my quest, completing #100parksin100days!
I was on the home stretch. Sure, I had some REALLY expensive and difficult parks left—but I was now marking the *few* areas of the map I still needed.
Wow!


It was at this point that Jen—who had insisted that she would NOT adopt the quest—decided to count up her own visits. She was at 101.
Ok, well, maaaybe she should at least start keeping track...
Ok, fine, she wants in! But her first quest goal was just reaching 200 total parks.
Part of the reason she adopted it was because we already had a number of other trips planned that year, which often included park units she hadn't been to that I wanted her to see.
"Oh, you haven't been to Arches? Well, let's go there on that long weekend we'll have in October."
So she upped the anty: her goal was now >200 parks, incl everything west of the Mississippi.
We also started sketching out trips to the harder parks: Hawaii, Guam, American Samoa, Alaska. And took trips back to completed areas where a new park unit had just been designated.

With me nearing the finish line, it was clear that she was going to tag along to the most difficult parks to visit. And many other parks would naturally be on our itinerary for other trips.
So, like myself, she eventually expanded the quest to include all of the park units.

A little bit surprisingly, most of our travel now shifted to visiting parks for HER. Sure, we did a trip to Guam, one to WA, and another to FL so I could #Finishthe48.
But for every new park I visited, she marked off at least FOUR. Jen was—very quickly—a highly motivated quester

Completing the Contiguous US seemed like an important milestone, and we expected it to take years and years to finish the remote parks in Alaska & American Samoa, plus any unexpected new ones.
So I had a little celebration with friends, not knowing how many more years I had left




Of course, one sign stuck out... 🤣
Our initial plan was hoping to tackle Alaska in 3 summer trips. If we got lucky on good weather for the required bush flights, we could finish the state in 3 yrs.
We'd need another year for American Samoa, and who-knows-what for any new ones.

We got **very lucky** on our first Alaska trip in 2018, and were able to do ALL of flights into the Western Arctic parks on schedule—which meant we were suddenly half done!
We managed to sneak in an American Samoa trip that winter, putting us waaay over our annual travel budget.
I also did that cannonball run up to Bighorn Canyon to mark off that orphaned unit.
Looking at the map now, I pushed for us to shoot for completing Alaska in just one more trip, not the two we had planned. We'd need more good luck, but it seemed well worth the attempt in my mind
I didn't know, but Jen had already been working with a number of friends (and even my ex-wife Kim!) to surprise me at my last park unit in Alaska. #shesakeeper
The problem was she had given them 3 yrs to plan, not the 2 that I was now pushing. So accelerating it mucked things up
But with Aniakchak—the hardest park unit to visit—still on our itinerary, it might take a third trip. I won't recount the story of how we *finally* made it there, but the short of it is: we did. Barely.
Which meant I'd finish the quest on the trip. Which is *A BIG FUCKING DEAL*
Some friends were able to make the trip anyway and joined me at my last park unit: Glacier Bay National Park. With shirts!
What a journey, right?! It's not every day that you accomplish such a major life goal, one that defined so much of your life.
Holy shit, I ACTUALLY DID IT!


So you'd think I'd be on top of the world. And in many ways, I was!
But it's also weird to "finish" something like this.
It's more interesting to be doing something, than it is to have done something. Being 36% done can be better than 100%. The fun really is in the journey. Huh

That was one of the big lessons for me. And it's why I encourage people to adopt the BIG quest, the one that seems too daunting.
Because it doesn't actually matter if you ever finish or not. The benefits are nearly all in the process of working towards the goal, not finishing it
What do you do when you've finished a big quest like going to all the National Park units?
Well, you start a new quest, of course. And so that's what I did, several times over, many of which I began years before finishing the parks.
Because it's all about the journey.

My parks journey did a few things for me:
- Helped shape my priorities in life
- Inspired countless adventures + memories
- Made me focus on prioritizing experiences over things
- Provided structure + motivation to see new places
- Gave me an interesting education on America
Choosing to adopt and pursue this crazy quest has been one of the best decisions of my life, and it's of course been one of the most treasured and impactful endeavors of my life, too.
I'll write more about these things in the future. And maybe add more to this thread later.
If you've somehow made it this far in the thread, you're 100% remarkable. So go adopt a remarkable quest!
- Check out [GoQuesting.com](http://GoQuesting.com) for ideas
- Connect with fellow questers
- Ping me if I can be helpful
- Inspire others with your adventures
- Enjoy the journey
Why I'm sticking with Wordpress, at least for now
I love many of the new, simple blogging platforms—Scribbles, Pika, Micro.blog, Bear Blog, omg.lol, and so forth. They're useful for helping you get words on page without much fuss. You don't worry about endlessly tweaking your design, because there really isn't much of one. Like social media, it's more standard interface than personal website. This can be refreshing for those of us who don't enjoy tinkering with code; it lets you focus on what you write, not how everything looks.
But in that simplicity, I'm finding it more difficult to abandon Wordpress for my primary site than I'd like it to be.
That's not because I actually enjoy using Wordpress these days—it's far too complicated than it used to be, at least for me. I don't enjoy the experience there anymore, at all. But it offers some basic features that those simple platforms just...don't (perhaps won't?).
Permalinks
If you already have your own domain name and are moving an existing website from one platform to another, you probably already have a slew of published pages and posts. But many of these platforms don't allow you to choose your own permalink structure, or update an .htaccess file.
So anyone who has gone to the trouble of linking to one of my posts is, well, about to regret having done so, as moving to another platform kills those links. For companies and customers that espouse a return to personal websites and blogging—where we intentionally directly link to others' sites instead of relying on social media algorithms—this feels especially out of tune.
Related to that is maintaining the integrity of the links on one's own site. There seem to be plenty of external services that you can employ to do this, but it seems like it should be a core feature that's omnipresent in all blogging software. After all, if links are the lifeblood of the web, shouldn't they be treated as important enough to keep current by every web publishing platform? At the very least, make this process as integrated and seamless as possible for me, so it's easier to keep up-to-date.
Better menu support
While most of these platforms offer some variety of static pages—ones that live outside of the traditional chronological feed—there isn't much support for websites that have more than a handful of pages, especially when it comes to menus.
There are a host of standard pages (here's another good list of them) that are commonly found on personal websites. If you linked to each of these in your menu, it'd quickly overwhelm any other pages you'd like to highlight. Now, part of the idea of /slash pages is that they're found in standard locations, but who wants to type in every variation hoping to get lucky? Sure, you can create one slashes page and manually link to everything within that one page. But that's a hack workaround that buries the links.
On my website, I have nearly as many static pages as I do topical blog posts. Most of them are not standard slash pages that anyone would guess. I mean, not many other people have a quest to cross every state border combination in the country. Or visit all the sites that were once national parks but have since been abolished or transferred. Or to visit all of the World's Largest Balls of Twine (yes, there's four different ones that all claim the title)(And yes, I can go on and on about my various quests—don't tempt me).
For me, these are all pages instead of posts because they're more a permanent reference than a timely update. They shouldn't be associated with a particular date, even if more detailed updates should be. For instance, Ideally I'd have one page for each of my ongoing travel quests, with occasional blog posts detailing when I've marked off another objective that are then referenced in the main page. At least, that's what makes sense to me.
Unfortunately, simple menus just don't allow for me to highlight all of the pages I have—pages that I always want to remain easily accessible no matter where on the site you are.
Photo galleries
One of the things I'd like to get back to on my website is posting more about our various travels, including posting a number of pictures from each trip. For the last decade or more, most of these ended up on social media platforms instead, which is a real shame. They should live on my personal website, after all.
But nearly all of the simple blogging platforms make posting a series of photos less-than-ideal. Sure, they render fine, but are mostly just a bunch of full-width images that require a lot of scrolling to get through. This doesn't work very well for travel-related posts, as my visitors are pretty divided on whether they're there primarily to see photos or there to read about the trip.
While it requires a bit more coding complication, I like having things like a customized tiled gallery, or a carousel, or a slider of some sort for various photo-heavy blog posts. Hell, for a long time, it was a leading factor in which Wordpress theme I chose.
Where does that leave me?
Oh hell if I know! 🤷♂️
The most likely scenario here is that I first attempt a redesign of my Wordpress site (which sounds awful), while also micro-blogging on one of these other services—always using a custom domain that I can later redirect if I move those posts elsewhere. And if that solution doesn't seem to work well, then perhaps the endeavor provides me with a bit more clarity on how to proceed.
[29/31] for #WeblogPoMo2024
[31/100] for #100DaystoOffload
Originally posted on scribbles.rscottjones.com
/Uses
This is my personal take on a /uses page. It also functions as my Default apps for 2024 post (though I'm making it a more permanent addition).
Since online reviews are so gamed and broken these days, I wanted to post my stuff so you can ask questions of an actual user of these items. I also post product reviews on my Public Notes website. Please note that these are not necessarily my recommendations, just what I own and use.
So if you have questions about any of these items, please feel free to contact me.
I'm still adding items! Last (partially) updated on July 13, 2025
Devices + Hardware
- Apple MacBook Air M3 (24GB RAM, 1TB SSD)
- iPhone 13 Pro Max
- Apple AirPods Pro (v2)
- Anker Life Q30 headphones
- Apple Watch Series 8 (45mm)
- Kindle Paperwhite (2024 version)
- Blue Yeti mic
- Synology DiskStation DS224+ NAS (Seagate Ironwolf 12TB RAID)
Software
Some of my favorites apps are:
- Obsidian - home of my second brain, personal memories vault, and travel journal
- Drafts - quick notes and thoughts
- Notion - we use this to organize most of our life (including our travel dashboard)
- Things 3 - my task management app
- Ulysses - where I usually do my longer form writing
- iA Writer - my occasional writing app
- Reeder 5 - my trusty "daily" RSS reader
- NetNewsWire - my "all the feeds" RSS reader
- Libby - Ebooks and audiobooks from your local public library. Yes please!
- Mona - the primary app I use for Mastodon.social
- Ice Cubes - the primary app I use for OnePhoto.Club
- Avenza - downloadable recreational maps
Online Services
- Hey - paid email service, love their workflow philosophy
- Wordpress - self-hosted, has run this site since its first release (for now, see below)
- Kirby 5 - I'm rebuilding this site in Kirby and transitioning a number of other projects to it, too
- Micro.Blog - interesting blog/social service, I'm using it for rsjon.es and other sites
- ConvertKit - the email newsletter service I use for several sites
- ForwardEmail.net - email forwarding/smtp for all my domains
- ButtonDown - Email newsletter I'm testing for #OnePostcard
- Dreamhost - have had this hosting account for 2+ decades now. Good enough for me
- Super - I use this to convert Notion pages into the #GoQuesting website
- Porkbun - domain registration, slowly migrating from now-defunct Google Domains
- Masto.Host - Use this to host the OnePhoto.Club mastodon instance
- Obsidian Sync + Publish (I'm a Catalyst supporter too)
- tinylytics - simple web stats that don't require cookies or other tracking
- omg.lol - a weird mix of services and a fun community
Photography
Most of my photos come from my iPhone, but here's some better camera gear I sometimes lug around.
- Nikon Z5 - my amateur entry into both mirrorless and "fancy" cameras
- Nikkor Z 24-200mm f/4-6.3 kit lens
- Nikkor Z 24-50mm f/4-6.3 kit lens
- Nikon z50 - an addition for Jen, but I'll use it too
- Nikkor DX 16-50mm f/3.5-6.3 kit lens
- LowePro Photo Active TLZ 50 AW case - I use this with the 24-200 lens
- LowePro Photo Active TLZ 45 AW case - use this with the 24-50 lens, or z50
- Peak Design Slide Lite and Leash camera straps
- Olympus TG-4 Tough camera - I've long used "tough" cameras for outdoor adventures, but this one is primarily for snorkeling trips.
EDC items
I don't carry much, but here are my items.
- Ekster Parliament wallet - [not an affiliate, but use code RPG-OWE-ERC for 10% off]
- Victorinox Signature Lite swiss army knife - tiny, very lightweight with scissors, small knife, small screwdriver, ballpoint pen, pen light
- Mini carabiner pill container - Lives on my keychain, contains an important pill for Jen
I don't carry these around much, but they're commonly mentioned in EDC kits, so here you go:
- BigiDesign Slim Bolt Action pen (titanium stonewashed, with damascus bolt) - this is my primary ballpoint pen
- BigiDesign Mini Bolt Action pen (titanium stonewashed, with damascus bolt) - literally just a mini version of the above
- Studio Neat Mark Two pen (black/silver) - my primary rollerball pen
- Zebra F-701 ballpoint pen (0.8mm, black) - my go-to "cheap-ish" pen. I must have 10 of these stashed in bags, car, notebooks, etc
Electronics accessories
- Anker Prime 67W charger - our primary travel charger (we also have Anker USB-C 735s, but they often fall out of sockets)
- Anker Nano 45W and Anker 715 (Nano 65W) chargers - faster charging plugs that live in my laptop and bike pannier bags
- Anker Nano portable charger for iPhone - handy battery pack that connects directly to the phone
- INIU 20000mah ultra compact power banks - our primary travel power packs (we also the 28k mini version too)
- Wireless Portable Charger 30,800mAh battery pack - perfect size and capacity for our overnight charging kit during camping trips.
- Anker 737 power bank - big and fancy, but can quick charge my laptop during camping roadtrips, which is what we bought it for.
- USB-C portable charger for Apple Watch - we use these while traveling
- tomtoc tech pouch - our main "chargers and cords" kit that we bring on longer trips
- tomtoc storage pouch - I have several of these set up as kits. One lives in my laptop bag, we use another for our overnight "tent" charging kit
- Samsung T7 Shield 4TB Portable SSD (and pro case) - photo downloads/backups while traveling
Adventuremobile
- 2015 Subaru Outback 2.5i Limited - still what I consider the best all-around "roadtrip vehicle" - great gas mileage, can get us to 90% of the places we want to go, easy to drive/park/turnaround, easy to reach rooftop bins or toss a kayak up top, safe, reliable, and AWD.
- Thule Atlantis 1600XT rooftop bin
- Thule BowDown kayak rack
- Thule BigStack kayak rack
- Exped MegaMat Duo 10 sleeping pad - perfectly fits the Subaru
- Napier Sportz Cove 61000 SUV tent - we use this to sleep with the rear gate open
- Window screens - keeps bugs out and lights dimmed while sleeping in the vehicle
- 200W power inverter - primarily charge larger items like laptops
Travel items
- Eagle Creek Gear Warrior 37L international wheeled carry on
- Cotopaxi Allpa 35L travel pack - our primary "urban" or "one-bag" weekender
- REI Big Haul 30" wheeled duffel - our primary "gear" bag for flights
- Eagle Creek No Matter What 110L rolling duffle bag - our secondary gear bag for flights
- REI Co-op Ruckpack 28 Pack - our primary "personal item" when traveling
- Eagle Creek Pack-It Specter Quick Trip toiletry bag - quick trips with flights
- Sea to Summit Hanging Toiletry Bag (large) - longer trips with flights
- Patagonia Black Hole Cube (Med 6L)
- Eagle Creek Pack-It Specter Tech Clean Dirty Half Cube
- LifeStraw Go 650 ml Water Filter Bottle (22oz)
- CamelBak Chute Mag Insulated water bottle (25oz + 20oz)- overall, the best water bottle around imo
- humangear GoBites Uno Spork - for carry-on baggage
- Full Windsor Magware Magnetic Flatware - we use these fancier ones in checked baggage
- Philips One battery toothbrush (my review on travel toothbrushes)
- Matador FlatPak Soap Bar Case - great for shampoo bars
- Osprey DayLitePlus pack - our primary day/travel pack on trips
- North Face Flyweight Pack - lightweight, packable backpack
- North Face Flyweight Duffel - lightweight, packable duffel we use to organize items after we land
- Chums SurfShorts travel wallet
- Repel travel umbrella
- PackTowl - use body size for these for showering/water sports, and face size for hand drying
- Mini massage gun - always great after a long day of driving, flying, or walking
- JISULIFE handheld fans - a lifesaver during stuffy/warm hotel rooms, or otherwise hot weather
Clothing for travel and the outdoors
- Merrell NOVA 2 GTX shoes
- Prana Stretch Zion II pants
- Columbia Omni-Shade shorts
- Chaco Z/1 Cloud sandal
- Crocs - topo clogs as camp shoes
- KUHL Renegade convertible pants
- REI Co-op Active Pursuits t-shirts
- North Face Mountain Athletics Full-Zip Fleece Jacket
- REI Co-op 650 Down Jacket
- REI Co-op Flash Stretch Rain Jacket
- REI Co-op Screeline Cap
- Ex Officio Insect Shield wide brimmed hat (discontinued)
- Sunday Afternoons Ultra Adventure hat (my review)
- Arcade A2 Slim Adventure Belt
Camping, hiking, and backpacking gear
Look, after almost three decades of camping and backpacking, I have a lot of gear. Much of it is too inconsequential or too old to mention. So I've omitted a lot. You should also know that I tend to buy on the extremes: either premium offerings from name brand outfitters, or cheap stuff from Walmart or the Dollar Store. Also, I haven't done much backpacking in the last 6-8 years, so I'm behind on newer gear since that era. But you do not need the latest ultralight gear to have a good time! People have been enjoying the backcountry for a century without fancy gear.
This list tries to focus on things I use regularly, or that you might actually buy, or buy something similar to, these days.
Sleep
- REI Kingdom 6 tent - the "mansion" we use when expecting to spend extra time in the tent due to weather, bugs, or wind
- Big Agnus Big House 4 tent - our go-to for car camping
- Marmot Limelight 3P tent (old version) - our "travel camping" tent
- REI Half Dome 2 tent - solo "car camping" tent
- MSR Hubba Hubba NX 2 Tent - 2-person backpacking
- REI Co-op HunkerDown 20 sleeping bag - love this for car camping
- Marmot Meteor 15 down sleeping bag - my warm bag
- Mountain Hardware Phantom 32 sleeping bag - primary backpacking
- North Face Cat's Meow (circa 2000)
- Exped MegaMat 10 sleeping pads
- Big Agnus Copper Spur HV UL 1P (2019 version) tent - solo backpacking
- Big Agnes Insulated Air Core Ultra sleeping pad - backpacking and travel camping
- FlexTailGear usb air pump
- Klymit Drift camp pillow - best car camping pillow
- Ikea Vitmossa fleece throw blanket - we bring 3-4 of these each trip to cover the coolers while driving and as extra warmth near the campfire and tent (and to block the full moon or morning sun)
General
- Mountainsmith Day lumbar pack (early 2000s model) with Strapettes
- REI Ridgeline 65 backpack
- Gregory Z30 daypack (old version)
- Black Diamond Spot-400 R (my review)
- Osprey Hydraulics Reservoir (3L)
- Leki Micro Vario Cor-Tec TA trekking poles
- Aqua-tainer 4 gal (and faucet kit)
- MSR MiniWorks EX filter
- Platypus GravityWorks filter
- Sawyer Squeeze filters
- REI Flexlite camp chair
- Camco 58041 propane firepit (and 11lb squatty propane canister) - a great alternative to wood campfires, and the only option during fire restrictions
- Morakniv Craftline Pro S Allround Fixed-Blade knife
Food
- Yeti Tundra 35 cooler - our primary food cooler during road trips
- Yeti Roadie 24 cooler - our primary "drinks cooler" for tailgating and roadtrips
- Yeti Roadie 15 cooler - our primary "we'll bring a few beverages" cooler
- Ozark Trails 25 cooler
- CleverMade Tahoe collapsible cooler - for when we fly in to do a road trip
- Coleman basic two-burner stove (25+ years old, still works great)
- GSI Outdoors Bugaboo cook set (original set, now discontinued)
- GSI Outdoors Infinity backpacker mug - yep, also for backpacking
- GSI Outdoors Halulite Minimalist II System cookset - my backpacking pot
- Jetboil Flash Java Kit - we use this in our "morning bin," primarily to quickly make coffee
- MSR PocketRocket stove - my super-old-but-still-works backpacking stove
- Camping stove fuel adaptor - use 1lb propane canisters with backpacking stoves
- CamelBak Chute Mag vacuum insulated water bottle (I use both 20oz & 25oz)
- Aeropress Go Travel Coffee Press
- BrüMate Hopsulator Trio insulated coozie - we use these things every damn day at home and bring them camping too
Kayaking
- Pelican Trailblazer 100 sit-in (2018 model, discontinued)
- Werner Skag-It paddle
- Astral V-Eight pfd (old version)
- Emotion Spitfire 9' sit-on-top kayak
- Ozark Trail cooler (discontinued)
- S.O.L. Survive Outdoors Longer Rescue Howler Whistle
eBiking
- REI Co-op Cycles Generation e1.2 Electric Bike
- Laser Coyote Kineticore bike helmet
- Kryptonite Evolution 1090 Integrated Chain Lock
- Kryptonite 525 Kryptoflex cable
- REI Junction pannier - use this every time we bring our computers to happy hour to do some work
- NiteRider Lumina 900 Boost bike light
- Lezyne Sport Floor Drive Pump - ABS1 Pro
- LeafPond bike drink holder - best overall water bottle holder I could find
- Portland Design Works Sparrow Cage
- Tiakia Bike Phone Mount Holder
- Park Tool IB-2 bike tool
Personal care
- Henson AL13 Razor - so much better than buying disposable, I trim up some neck hair and use it on the odd occasion when I have to legit shave. No strong preference on razor blades (yet, at least), as I don't use them very regularly
- Philips Norelco Multigroom Series 5000 beard trimmer - I use this to cut my own hair and trim my stubble. I can't tell you how much money, time, and annoyance I've saved in cutting my own hair since my 20s.
- Green Bell G-1205 Nail Clipper - didn't realize how much better "decent" clippers are than the cheap ones I've always owned
Home & household
- Wyze Cam Pan - we originally used these in my dad's assisted living room, but now they adorn our home when we travel. They're annoying and I don't recommend them.
- Wyze Wireless Video Doorbell Pro - meh, generally does what it needs to
- Nixplay 10.1" Smart Digital Photo Frame - we stream vacation pics
- Moen White Flo Smart Water Leak Detector (and sensor cables) - with audible alarm, app notification, text message, and phone call there's no damn way to miss a water leak
- LUXE Bidet NEO 120 - living the bidet life
March 28, 2024
Bespoke social media
Last year, I launched One Photo Club, a free social community for people who love travel (come join us!). The site centers around sharing photos from your previous trips to various prompts, so it serves as a remembering practice for participants as part of a concept I call Return On Adventure (think ROI but for your adventures).
It’s a free, ad-free, algo-free, bot-free, influencer-free, no-bad-vibes community focused solely on travel and outdoor adventures, which is (whew boy!) a welcome respite. And it’s way more fun to scroll through your own fun memories than the shitposts of others.
Last month, I launched a “re-imagined” version of One Photo Club, which is fediverse-friendly and overall more social than the original version. That means that we’ll continue to have a travel-photos-only feed, plus be able to interact with the wider social web community.
I’m also relaunching #OnePostcard, a monthly postcard exchange for travelers who are traveling in the same month. (The April cohort starts in just a couple days if you see this in time)
As I’ve come to really enjoy One Photo Club, it’s scratched my social media itch enough that I’ve mostly abandoned Twitter and Instagram. I currently have 5-minute-per-day app limits for each and no longer find myself defaulting to either when I’m bored.
The more distance I have, the more obvious it is that these don’t serve our lives the way they should. I haven’t written much about this yet, but boy…I think we’ve made a mistake in how/what we consume on social media.
The social web
So I’m also trying to get back to what made the social web so magical before the big social media advertising platforms emerged. That means thinking about how to (1) write here more, (2) build and maintain connections with interesting people online, and (3) keep track of friends that primary post on the social media platforms I’ve mostly abandoned.
I’m currently working on a major revision of this site. I recently made a “digital garden” of public notes available at rscottjon.es, and also starting sharing a few interesting links at rsjon.es.
I’m continuing to slowly build out #GoQuesting, a directory of travel quests that people can adopt. I have a lot more planned for Go Questing, but my first task is putting together some mini-guides for the 1500+ quest ideas I already have listed. This week I’m dealing with some errors that popped up unexpectedly when I moved hosting accounts, so if something seems off, please let me know as I get it all fixed back up.
Travel
After spending nearly a month in Portugal in December, we’re now planning trips for the remainder of the year. Our two big international trips for the year will be campervanning around Norway and finally getting to the Galapagos, after several canceled attempts during covid.
But most of our trips this year will be road trips from Phoenix. Our next trip is a road trip centered around several days the French Quarter Fest in New Orleans, with additional stops at various national park units and questing objectives in LA, MS, MO, IL. We’re looking at scheduling other roadtrips to Yellowstone and Seattle/Olympic. If you “know me online” you can add yourself to my let’s meet up list that I consult when making a new itinerary.
Caregiving
Last but not least, I’m spending a lot of time at happy hour with my aging dad—who is now battling bladder and three other cancers—and in managing…well, his entire life, basically. Even with having him in an assisted living facility, I still find myself spending 15-20 hours a week on this.
Did we need big social media platforms to find "our people" online?
tldr: Nope, it's actually harder to do on big social platforms. Here's why.
Here's a short reply I had to a message from a good friend on the role social media—specifically twitter—played in us meeting and becoming friends. He was gracious enough to let me respond.
"I mean, look at us--It took a big network like Twitter for our paths to cross, and ditto for a tons of baseball friends, national park friends, etc"
- one of the friends I met via Twitter's #parkchat
Oh, I don't at all believe that we needed a big network like twitter to meet! I believe the opposite is true, actually.
Sure, we happened to find each other there, but twitter didn't enable it in some unique or special way. I mean, the web was already a very social place before twitter, and for the same reasons Twitter took off, there's every reason to believe that the rest of the social internet would have continued to absolutely blow up too.
Even if twitter (or other large centralized social media) never existed, our meeting was just as likely to have happened somewhere in 100 other online communities--perhaps on the extremely active comments section of some road trip blog to a web forum on national parks or an online club organized on whatever replaced Yahoo Groups, or a photo-sharing site like flickr, or a mailing list of travel questers, or on any of the myriad other social networks that existed or would have existed, if not for twitter. Don't forget the hundreds of competing sites that the big platforms acquired simply as a way to kill off any possible competitors. I've made friends on basically all of those types of communities.
On net, I think centralized social media platforms like twitter actually collapsed opportunities to connect with people with similar interests online, not enhanced them. (I think they had a lot of other negative effects we're just now realizing too, but won't comment on that here)
We first connected via parkchat, right? Well, that was like 25 people tweeting at each other 10 years ago...in an absolute sea of tweets. Very little signal compared to the firehose of noise. You essentially accidentally stumbled into a conversation there. A big network is also a big haystack in which to sift through looking for your needle. After all, what infinitesimal percentage of tweets are about national parks? We were damn lucky for our rowboats to bump into each other in such a vast ocean.
Let's say you moved to metro LA and needed to make some new friends. Would you just stand on the street corner (the "big network" of 13 million residents) and wait to find someone in a Giants hat walk past that you could talk to? Nah, you'd go to the NY Giants fan club (the small network of 1300 members) instead, because of course it would be more likely to make new friends there.
Similarly, outside of twitter, there were plenty of other online communities of national park folks out there that we could have met on. And there probably would have been even more of them if no big networks emerged. Smaller ones, certainly, but like the fan club example, it's easier for boats to bump into each other in a lake than in the ocean. I stumbled upon the National Park Travelers Club—essentially a 10x larger and more dedicated version of parkchat—before twitter even existed. I met several park friends there (some that I later brought to parkchat!), and they were doing several times a year "tweetups" before twitter existed. Anyway, it wasn't super hard to find groups like this, you either just googled it, ran across a blog mention (twitter mostly replaced personal blogging), or ran across it organically somewhere else...just as we did with parkchat. And if people hadn't defaulted to big platforms like twitter, each of those communities would have had a much more vibrant community that they ran themselves...just like every social club has for hundreds of years now!
But, hey, I liked twitter and enjoyed parkchat for a long time and made some quality friends from it—no doubt about it! But just because we got 50 parkchat friends from twitter doesn't mean it was actually the best platform on which to make park friends. I also invested a lot of time into twitter--which is itself an opportunity cost. Had I not spent many years interacting constantly with a smallish group of (I dunno maybe 250 max?) parkchat folks and instead invested that same effort into interacting with the 2500 park questers in the NPTC, what might that have looked like? Might I have 10x more park friends right now? What might it look like now if I had invested 1/6 of the time on twitter and spent the rest in five other communities of parkchat-like folks? It's almost certainly higher ROI for creating friendships in those other topic-specific communities because you're not wasting time sifting through unrelated stuff, like ads or posts on every other possible topic.
Our instagram feeds these days are a good example of that. Users are currently served 1 ad after every 4th post in the timeline. So you're spending 20% (1/5) of the time you scroll looking at ads and not the posts of your friends or might-become-friends. That's a helluva lot of overhead. You wouldn't watch TV if there was a minute long commercial break for every 4 minutes of your show. But we accept it on social media. Not because it's a rational decision necessarily (I'm sure you don't think scrolling IG is the best way to find new luggage), but because we first became invested in the ad-free versions and then (because of inertia, network effects, switching costs, collective action problem, etc) just accepted the ensuing platform rot as a necessary cost. (Side note: 75% of my IG ads right now are for a "buy once, use forever" style razor...that I already bought a year ago. These ad platforms have gotten much worse for businesses too; and as consumers, we've helped trap them into an increasingly bad business model.)
We've all been down this road before, of course. The early internet's twitter and instagram were AOL and Prodigy. It seemed downright amazing that we could make friends online and so we readily accepted the ads and walled garden as a worthwhile cost for that. But luckily some nerds thought "wait a minute, couldn't we make this soooo much better??" and developed protocols like html, http, url, and web browsers. And suddenly we had the Cambrian explosion of the World Wide Web. And then we all quickly abandoned the old narrative that AOL was important and worthwhile and realized how incredibly dumb and limiting it was to think that the service was peak internet that we should just accept as-is—that we should only be able to email people who were also paying for AOL and not everyone on the whole planet. I think we're at that same point in time with social media and hope we can get over the hump like we did back then.
Anyway, thanks for letting me push back a little; feel free to tell me where I got something wrong. I know I'm pretty ornery on this topic these days. You know that I really do love connecting with people online—it truly is amazing—and I'm probably the only person you know that has an actual form on my website for "people I know online" to add themselves to my road trip itineraries. But we all deserve some better solutions and have all the tools we need to make something better. So that's what I'm trying to do.
How to build a cheap water faucet and sink for camping
Jen and I have been dealing with a series of water leaks—4 completely different ones in the last 2.5 weeks. The latest is the main water supply line, which will likely require digging up much of the yard to replace. So, we've been without running water for far too many days recently.
Luckily, I had just upgraded our camping water system, so at least we have a place to wash our hands after, you know, peeing in the backyard (though sometimes, it's the alternative: "Hey babe, I'm going to the bar...I have to use the bathroom").
A simple water faucet system
My solution is a simple usb-powered water faucet that conveniently fits on top of a common Reliance Aqua-tainer. Toss in a collapsing sink, and you have a pretty handy system for camping—or using during major water leaks.
In short, you'll swap out the standard manual spigot and substitute in a hollow pvc piece that screws in place to hold a faucet while allowing for the water tube to be inserted into the water jug. The faucet pump is powered by an internal battery pack that you can recharge with a simple micro-usb cable.
While the default spigot is a sufficient solution, this faucet setup offers several advantages.
First, because you're pumping water out of the top instead of relying on gravity while it's on its side, you can use it on a table top—which makes doing chores like dishes much easier. No more hunching over to use the water, and with a portable sink, you can also avoid a muddy mess on the ground.
Second, you can simply press a button and get a preprogrammed amount of water dispensed, meaning it shuts itself off when you're done washing your hands. It doesn't seem like much, but it's hard to go back to the manual valve after using this for awhile.
Third is better cleanliness. While the manual spigot is handy in that it cleverly converts from lid to spigot, its design leaves the main tube open to the world during transport/storage, which means that there's nearly always some nasty crap in the tube when you go to set up. While the faucet doesn't maintain a water-tight seal when not in use—as the manual spigot generally does—it does block dirt from getting into the water jug. We simply keep the faucet, water tube, and connector in a ziplok bag with our gear. We still use the manual spigot during home storage and transport.
Want a readymade solution instead? Here is a reasonably priced and very similar all-in-one product on Amazon that seems to use the exact same pump.
What you need
- USB faucet ($14.72 on Amazon)
- PVC 3/4" x 1/2" reducing male adaptor ($1.76 at Home Depot)
- Aqua-tainer ($33/7 gal or $40/4 gal on Amazon)
- Collapsing bucket ($20 for 2-pack on Amazon)
Some alternatives
We prefer using the smaller 4-gallon aqua-tainer (it's easier to carry and we rarely need seven gallons between refilling) but this works with either size. We use the collapsing buckets as the sink (the two pack makes it easier to wash dishes), but you could also upgrade to collapsing sinks that have drain holes too.
There are a number of faucet options out there. This one has two buttons: on/off, and 600ml (which dispenses water until the limit is reached, which is perfect for hearty handwashing), a nice style, and an angled spout that shoots the water out at a bit of an angle, giving you more room for a sink. The base fits well over the pvc adaptor listed above, which still allows it to swivel depending on your needs. I've also added a slice of a thin pool noodle, which helps cut down on some minor wobbling when you press the on/off button. I use it about half the time.
Note that different faucets have different bases—which are often not shown in photos on Amazon—so you may have to alter this plan if you choose a different one. And keep in mind that some faucets have their water intake hose on the backside of the faucet base instead of the bottom, so they wouldn't work with this setup.
Assembly
Putting this together is dead simple. Just unscrew the standard spigot, screw in the pvc piece listed above (mine only screws in a few turns, which is more than sufficient), insert the water tube into the jug, and set the faucet on top. Boom, you're done.
Here's what it looks like, with the addition of the pool noodle slice mentioned above.

And there you go! A simple and cheap solution. We'll likely be using a similar set up in the minivan camper we're hoping to build.
Here’s a prebuilt solution I ran across.
A medical reference document for emergencies
Between my dad, Jen, and even our neighbor yesterday, I've dealt with a number of emergency room visits these last three weeks. And it's gotten us thinking about the accessibility of medical information, especially while traveling and during medical emergencies.
So we implemented what we're calling a medical reference document, which basically includes all the important "new patient" paperwork you'd fill out at your first visit with a new doctor.
Avoid annoying paperwork
I had already put together an earlier version of this for my dad, which made it so much easier to check-in to his various doctor offices. Instead of filling out yet another form to verify that everything's up to date, I simply print it off ahead of time and hand back the clipboard with the attachment.
Not only does this save a ton of time and effort (and hand cramps), but it also reduces transcription mistakes when someone can't read my handwriting as I try in vain to squeeze everything onto a blank line that's entirely too short for the information requested. Office staff are initially confused, but often thank me for making their transcription task so much easier.
So that's a handy enough reason to spend the 15 minutes to pull this together.
When an emergency happens
But it was the possibility of dealing with an emergency—especially while traveling—that made us decide we should both have all of our relevant medical information quickly and easily available in a single updated document.
After all, it's hard to remember lots of details when you suddenly find yourself in a stressful moment of crisis, and especially so if there's any sort of language barrier at play.
By having it all in writing, it's much easier to share important information quickly, and it wouldn't take much to use Google Translate to translate it into the local language prior to a trip, too.
Where we keep it
We are now keeping these documents saved in the cloud (which we can access from anywhere, even without our phones), and saved directly on both of our phones (so that we have offline copies available, too).
Anytime something needs to be updated—we get a new prescription for instance—we update it, share it with each other, and save copies of the new version to all the places.
What's on the doc?
So, what information do we include? Well, basically anything that we'd want medical or emergency personnel to know in a critical situation.
So obviously that's the basics, like general demographic and contact information, who to contact in an emergency, allergies, prescriptions, immunizations, major health illnesses, our doctor and other specialists, etc. We also include insurance and pharmacy information, though that's likely only relevant in-country. We even include surgical and family histories, and some other info we might need when filling out medical forms.
If you have unique conditions or things you'd someone to know in an emergency (such as the details about an implanted medical device, for instance), you should definitely customize it for your own needs. If you have any suggestions for something I've missed, please let me know!
Here's a template to get your started
That said, here's a general template you can start with. This is one of those things that is incredibly easy to put off doing, only to regret not having it later. But once you get it all pulled together, it's pretty easy to keep it updated, and you'll have it in case you ever need it.
PDF sample
Here's the template in pdf format, which is the file format we export to our phones.
Your_Full_Name_-_Medical_Reference.pdf
Plain text template
And here's a plain text version that you can edit:
Your Full Name - Medical Reference.txt
Notion template
And if you use Notion, you can one-click duplicate this to your account at this link.
Since we already use Notion for managing much of our lives, we keep the "source" files there, then just export and save the copies to our icloud drive, and then to both of our phones.
How to make driving across Texas more fun
Our latest road trip required a long drive across Texas, a state I repeatedly wish I didn't have to drive across. But if you live in Phoenix and your intended destinations are in the Southeastern US, then driving through Texas is simply the Price of Admission you pay for your trip.
We ended up staying in hotels more than usual on this trip, and given the shorter winter days, that meant more time in a hotel room. Luckily, we brought our laptops on this trip as part of a new travel journaling practice we are experimenting with.
I thought it would be fun to chart the roads I've driven in the US, but that seems like a nearly impossible task. That's because I routinely veer off the obvious route to drive a road that might be more scenic, or detour for an inconsequential roadside oddity, or to "get lost and ask for directions," or head off to an obscure campground for the night.
In short, I really don't know where all I've been since I haven't really tracked that over all my trips. But I could start doing that now, for this trip at least. So I brought along some AAA state maps and a sharpie to trace our route. And then I promptly forgot those in the car each night.
So, with my laptop in the room, I instead cracked open a website devoted to counting the counties you've visited. I could probably figure out the counties I've visited much more easily than the specific roads I'd traveled anyway. Over the next several nights, I charted out a somewhat complete map of my county visits.
Visiting all 3,143 counties in the US is a more popular quest than you'd imagine. Indeed, thousands and thousands of people are tracking their county visits, and at least 70 people have completed them all! I had no such quest goal. In fact, one of my friends has been working on this quest for two decades now and I've always thought it was a somewhat crazy one. Most counties aren't very interesting. I wasn't adopting the quest, I just wanted to see where I've been—or rather, where I still need to go. I wanted to see what "holes" I still had in my domestic travel.
But, of course, after filling out my county map and realizing that I was already past the 50% mark, I started wondering what a good county quest goal for myself might be. When would I feel like I've closed those holes? Was it 2000 total counties? Or maybe >50% in each state? Or both? Or just when I'd finished the whole damn thing? I'm still not sure, but I think it's clear...I have some sort of county quest now.

And indeed, so does Jen, who filled out her own map during our hotel hours. So, for the last few days of the trip, we made sure to take the longer route to some of our destinations, bypassing the quicker route that we had already done in favor of driving through some new-to-us counties. Every time we passed a little green "Entering So-and-So County" sign along some rural highway, there was now reason to exclaim "YAAAAY!"
This is the main goal of questing—inspiring you to go to more places you haven't yet been.
One of the other big (and unheralded) benefits of questing is that it can make "unfun travel" more...well, fun. Even if your quest objective is less enjoyable than you had anticipated, or maybe the weather was awful, or you broke your expensive new camera, or some other sucky thing happened...well, at least you marked the damn place off! Getting something done makes you feel a bit better about that trip than if you had the same bad experience but hadn't simultaneously completed a goal. Put another way, if you mark off a quest item, you always have a bright spot on the trip. Or, on a smaller level, you have a bright spot in an otherwise lackluster vacation day.
And we re-discovered that on the drive home, when we were faced with driving across Texas. Because now we had a new purpose for the drive: we would mark off some random counties! Texas seems to have eleventy zillion of them, each of which is generally small and thoroughly unremarkable. If we took a slightly longer way home, we'd be able to cross off 15 of them on our drive, and thereby permanently remove them from our list of places we have any reason to visit. We were getting stuff done. And sometimes never having to return to a place is a pretty good travel outcome.
And that's exactly what we did. We actually extended the drive we were dreading because of this new quest, converting a boring and unfun endeavor into a series of small "yays" and some new blue squares on our county map. We traveled through country we hadn't seen before, which resulted in some interesting observations. It didn't magically elevate the trip into one of my all-time favorites, but it did reduce the cost of that Price of Admission rather substantially.
Many people shy away from big quests that have what seems like an unreachable number of objectives. But the benefits of questing are all found in the journey, not in completion. Will I ever finish all the counties? Probably not. But sometimes having a huge quest—even one you don't expect to ever finish—simply gives you more possible ways to make those long drives less boring.
→ Start your own US Counties quest (#GoQuesting1640)
Friends for the sake of memories
I’m in the process of substantially shifting how I use social media.
I want to focus on using social media solely to connect with actual people—not to consume so-called breaking news or procrastinate over memes or fight social battles or dunk on the political villain of the moment. It’s become clear that none of those things is helping me, or seems to be helping society, either. At least when it happens solely on social media.
I’ve mostly boycotted Facebook for a few years now—it’s among the most destructive companies I can think of—but I’m trying a new experiment to see if I can reclaim enough value before I dump the whole thing.
That process involves unfollowing every brand page, leaving most groups while muting the rest, and tightening up my list of friends. I’ll write more on all this in the coming months.
But that’s not what this post is about.
Friends for memories sake
I’m also keenly aware these days of preserving memories. And I noticed something yesterday. I’m Facebook friends with some people not because I consider them an actual friend—at least not now—but because I like the idea of maintaining a connection to a time when we were friends. Put another way, I'm only pretending to be friends with someone because we shared some good memories at one point in my life. (This is basically the only reason Classmates.com exists, right?)
So when I ran across a post from the random dude we befriended in a dive bar not far from the California-Mexico border, and noticed who he seems to have turned into these days, I decided he wouldn’t make the cut. His social media posts won't benefit my life, so there's no reason to consume them in the future.
To be fair, I’ve enjoyed all of the times we’ve interacted with each other. And I fondly regard our first meeting as an excellent example of why I enjoy travel and patronizing obscure dive bars. And he has an interesting story, one that I’ve referenced to other friends numerous times.
In short, he sold all of his possessions (including his business), then started walking from Phoenix to the start of the Pacific Crest Trail, with the notion that he'd thru-hike it to Canada, in a bid to change his life. How would it do that? He wasn’t sure. From gear to knowledge to physical fitness, he was totally unprepared, but went anyway. Pretty wild, right?
And, true to his life-changing stroll, his life has indeed...changed. I like the person I met in that bar; I like the person he seems to be now far less. It’s a bummer, but these things happen.
The rub
But, I want to keep my memories of meeting him, his story, and how that all came to be. I want to remember how I felt about what he did, what parts of it were inspiring to me, and what parts were not. I want to keep the insights I gained from it, and I want to preserve the story of it all for myself. It's a story I cherish.
And hence, the conflict. Either abandon the Facebook friendship, or maintain the connection to those memories. That was my unspoken default thinking in how I approached many social media friendships. We were once friends—or just work colleagues, or simply sat next to each other in chemistry class, or were both regulars at the local bar, or just randomly met while traveling and friended each other. And because we shared those moments, and had agreed to be "friends" on social media, we should always be friends. If we weren't Facebook friends, they'd vanish from my life—and so would the memories.
But, of course, very few life choices are truly binary.
Preserving the memory
So I employed a new strategy: I journaled about everything I wanted to remember (adding it to my personal memories vault).
I wrote about how we met, what we talked about, and how I felt about the encounter. I relived getting together with him for a beer several months later, while he was still on his journey (sorta). I added the photos we had taken together, as well as the blog post someone wrote about what he was doing on that long walk. I added a photo of him on the trail, and the contact info I still have in my phone. I wrote about how he had changed and what his life seemed to be like now. It was a brain dump which took me a solid hour, perhaps even more.
I essentially wrote a mini biography, from my own perspective and filled with all the little tidbits and details I was privy to. I told all the stories I might want to remember to my “Future Self.”
And then I clicked the unfriend button, satisfied to keep only what I wanted while discarding the rest.
This was originally posted on Hey World.
A 'Digital Garden' Approach to Travel Journaling
tl;dr: I’ve started keeping track of my travels in an interconnected system of notes. This helps me remember more, and to better connect the dots. Here’s a bit more on what that looks like and why I’m trying this.
Update: I've added a bit to this idea. You can read my additions and why I've enjoyed this journaling approach at Digital Gardening for Travel.
Ephemeral Consumption
So much of our daily lives revolves around what I call ephemeral consumption. We endlessly scroll social media, veg out in the front of the tv, and plow through books and documentaries. And by doing so, we ensure that much of the value of what we consume is fleeting. We quickly forget things and don’t get to make proper use of them in the future. Memory is a choice, and too often we don’t proactively choose to remember very much.
There is another approach. It involves some work, but its value compounds over time, making the endeavor more and more useful over time. It is the simple effort of taking some notes about what we learn, and linking those ideas together in an interconnected system.
I’ve started to deploy this strategy in various parts of my life, including in my travel. I spend an outsized portion of my free time and money on travel experiences, so it just makes sense to try to get as much lasting value out of those expenditures as possible.
Some call a system like this a “digital garden” (see below for some introductory links to the concept), though I named my own public version my "Ideas Notebook" (edit: I've since moved this to rscottjon.es and renamed it Public Notes) You might also think of it as a sort of personal wikipedia.
The beauty of this approach is that my notes are not static files I never look back on again, but are instead linked to and updated over time as I learn new things or gain new insights. Because they are interconnected, it’s easy to build upon my earlier knowledge and experiences, while making new mental connections. This helps shift tourism from passive consumption to active learning. It's easy to start connecting the dots between places I visit and the things I learn about. And because they’re written down, I can easily revisit them whenever I’d like. Simply put, I don’t forget what I had learned on that trip (or at minimum, much less of it).
What does this look like for travel?
I’m still in the “test drive” phase of using this, so I expect ongoing changes and improvements. Initially, I’ve divided my notes into three main buckets, though rich links connect all these notes no matter where they reside.
Places
First, there are places. Each place that I visit gets its own separate note. This note has some basic information, including when I visited, and some basic journaling about the experience I had there.
If there are interesting facts I learned, or insights I gained, I’ll keep track of them here too. I also add questions raised or things I might want to follow up on. The intent here isn’t to write a full report on the place, as much as it is to capture things that are interesting to me personally.
Here an example from a recent stop at Homestead National Historical Park in Nebraska.

Trips
Second, there are trips. Again, each trip gets its own separate note. This note contains both some basic information (similar to my trip dashboard) about when I went, with whom, and links to the specific places (see above) that I visited.
In addition, the trip note serves as home for my broader travel journaling. Specific experiences are already captured in the places notes, so the journaling here focuses more on the overall trip than on specific destinations.
Themes
Finally, there are themes. This is the most fluid and flexible part of the system. It’s also where the system really shines. I’ll write a theme note when a connection between multiple places strikes me as interesting. Themes help connect ideas, or observations, places, experiences, or even trips themselves.
Theme topics can be broad or specific, so there’s quite a bit of leeway here. One theme might focus on the decline of rural America, another might be observations on the migration of former slaves after the Civil War. Another might be small town ballparks, or roadside attractions along Route 66, or how local craft breweries often reclaim historic downtown buildings. Another theme might connect various trips I’ve taken.
Themes are the heart of the system because they foster mental connections, help you see larger trends, understand concepts better, and possibly even gain insights into yourself. They connect things you already know with the new things you're learning, and they allow you to update your understanding of a topic.
Themes also allow you to add some notes before your trip. If you're doing any research in preparation for upcoming travel, you can capture some of the ideas you encounter in theme notes. For instance, I just started reading a book on Icelandic culture in preparation for an upcoming trip to Iceland. If there are interesting topics I might want to explore more, I can add a theme note for it. Then, when I'm journaling about the trip itself and run across that idea again, I can easily link it to the theme note I had started prior to traveling.
In the screenshot above, you’ll notice several links that point to various theme notes. Here’s a graph view of what that looks like for this specific note:

Initially, themes will be a bit sparse until I visit more places and generate other notes. As my base of notes expands, each of these nodes will connect to multiple places, trips, and even other themes. But even after one trip, I’ve started to see the potential of thematically connecting my visits together.
Stories
Since first publishing this, I've also added another note type: Stories:
Story notes are focused on specific narratives you want to have as separate notes[1]. For instance, many of my trips often include some interesting story about something that happened. Having that as a separate note makes it more accessible to relive without having to dig through other trip notes. Want to quickly pull up the story about the time you lost your hiking boot off the cliff? Well, there's a note for that.
A side benefit of this approach is that you can reference the general story in the main trip narrative without getting bogged down in all of the details you want to remember in the future; those necessary (but sometimes tedious) details can simply live in the more comprehensive story note instead.
Other benefits
This approach offers three main benefits.
First, I notice that I pay closer attention to where I’m at, and process what I learn a bit more fully. Even in places where “learning” isn’t the primary goal, such as a brewery, I find myself interacting with the place in a deeper way. It’s like my brain knows that I’ll need to write a note about it, so it’s a bit more diligent and more present in the moment.
I’ve also noticed, especially in museum-like settings, that I find myself being more curious. Having a specific place to mark down a few of the “hmm, I wonder” thoughts makes it easier to have them.
Lastly, I definitely remember more. The “Generation Effect,” which posits that you remember things better if you rewrite them in your own wording, may play a role in this. But it may also be because I find myself revisiting older notes, updating them when I come into contact with new-but-related observations or experiences. So I'm just being reminded of the content more regularly than before.
I’m still early into testing this note taking journaling strategy, but I’m pretty excited about it so far. I’ll report back after more testing.
If you're interested in exploring this idea more, shoot me an email. If you're looking to experiment a bit, check out the free Obsidian app, which is what I use to capture these notes.
If you're interested in how I came across this idea, read this. If you want to learn more about the idea of digital gardening, I recommend this post and this essay.
Quick update: I've been using this approach for several trips now, and I'm quite happy with the results. I've also been experimenting with different workflows to make this more detailed journaling system easier to manage during and after a trip.
I'll write a more comprehensive review and update this post once I'm done experimenting. If you're considering adopting this approach, just jump in and give it a go! Oh, and let me know, too.
Here's an update: Digital Gardening for Travel
A collectible car versus a free college education
The Barrett-Jackson car auction took place last month in nearby Scottsdale. I was at a small outdoor party with someone who had attended the first day, intent on buying a Ferrari (or one of three other options) the following day. His budget was up to $400,000, so his purchase choice would simply depend on how the bidding played out. He had attended the first day to scope out the cars he might want and learn the bidding process before jumping in the following day.
It seems crazy to me that people care so much about cars that they would pay such vast sums for them, especially for rare or vintage "collectibles." In fact, that goes for just about any "collectible," which provides virtually no utility beyond—perhaps—a mild but fleeting ego boost or feeling of nostalgia. Perhaps he considered it an “investment,” though let’s be honest—if you have $400k to burn, is it really money you need to use to make even more money with?
Personally, I can't really imagine having enough wealth to even consider buying something like a car I'll never drive—even if I thought I could resell it later for a bit more money.
If I had an extra $400,000 laying around to blow on something like that, I’d spend it quite differently. I presume if such a purchase was even an option, that I had already fulfilled all of my needs and could already afford whatever experiences I wanted to have and travel wherever I wanted to. Granted, my wants aren’t of the “luxury” variety—which can never truly satisfy anyway given the hedonic treadmill.
And if that were the case, it just seems obvious that one would derive far, far more personal joy from spending that money to help others. How much joy can you really get from an object that you can’t really use, after all?
But how much joy would you get from funding the college educations of 6-8 kids compared with a car you'll never drive more than a handful of miles? We're talking about having a major impact on the lives of half a dozen human beings here—that's going to give you joy for A LONG TIME.
Not a fan of college? What about funding a gap year of international travel for each of them? Or maybe fund a twelve month runway for them to start a business—there’s no better education than actually doing it, right? All of these would be life-altering experiences that they might not otherwise ever have.
And each would likely return far more personal joy than the ego boost you get from owning something you never use—even on a much smaller scale than a $400k Ferrari. That's perhaps something we should all keep in mind the next time we're buying something frivolous.
I paid $100 for the privilege of travel today

Today we paid $100 for the privilege of taking our two big road trips this year. What does that mean?
We are privileged to be able to travel as often as we do. That doesn’t mean we don’t work hard to capitalize on our own personal situations, or sacrifice in other ways to create these opportunities—we most certainly do both. But it means we don’t face many of the artificial, socially-constructed limitations that others do; or if we have, we managed to overcome them.
With privilege comes both gratitude and responsibility. We’re incredibly grateful for the travel we can do. So we want to ensure that others have fewer barriers to traveling, with the hope that their travel experiences will be just as personally meaningful as ours are.
So for every big trip that we take, we set aside a modest sum—usually $50 per trip—to pay it forward. It’s an investment in someone else’s travel. We just build it directly into each trip budget. Fifty dollars won’t change someone’s world, but it’s a reasonable amount for us. And over time, it can really add up.
Right now, this money is being set aside for the daughter of our good friends, who functions as our adopted niece. While Natalie is still a toddler, our hope is that we can help fund a really big travel opportunity—like an entire gap year, if she wants.
So instead of buying her lots of presents from Uncle Scott & Aunt Jen, we deposit some money into her travel fund for each birthday and holiday, and also for each big trip we take. (And yes, we still get her some smaller gifts, too.)
For us, it’s a tangible reminder of both how fortunate we are to be able to travel, as well as the responsibility we have for helping others have a similar opportunity.
This was originally posted on Hey World.
The last years of your life suck
Unless you die earlier than you need to, the last years of your life generally suck.
When planning out the course of our lives, many of us see retirement as our “golden years.” Not just the slow wind-down of our lifespan, but the culmination of a long-time goal: the end of the “ugh I have to go to work again today” phase of our lives. It means the freedom to do, well, whatever we want.
It’s something we aspire to, and often make sacrifices to attain. We work harder—postponing important personal goals—during our “working years” to help ensure that we have a better retirement. We don’t take that bucket list trip, or we spend the extra weekends pounding out work deliverables in order to “get ahead.” We defer experiences we want to have. We don't save time or energy for the things we say we really care about.
In short, we try to play the marshmallow game to win both marshmallows.
But what if the last several years of your life won’t be fun, no matter what you have planned for it? Odds are good that it’s going to suck—at least in comparison to your life right now. Put another way, what if the second marshmallow is disgustingly stale? Or maybe more to the point, what if you wait too long and both marshmallows are stale?
What to expect when you’re old
There’s a roughly 50% chance that your partner will die before you. You’ll spend an increasingly large portion of your life in doctors appointments, and awaiting test results, and being seen by various specialists worried about various ailments. You may have significant long-term health issues that detract from your quality of life. Many of your friends will die, or move away to be closer to family or medical services. Small injuries may have big consequences, disrupting or potentially ending your ability to enjoy the hobbies you love. Various body parts won’t work as they used to. You’ll slowly (or sometimes quite quickly) lose important parts of your independence. You’ll get more forgetful, and probably feel bad about it. Your hearing, eyesight, finger dexterity, strength, and mobility will all decrease. You may need daily assistance to complete many of the relatively routine daily tasks of living.
In short, at some point, your life will very likely not be as you’d like it to be.
A new perspective
Now, that doesn’t mean that life will be horrible. You’ll probably have a much better perspective on what really matters in life. You may be very grateful for the opportunity to live yet another day, even if it doesn't look like you might have expected it to a decade before. You’ll adapt, as best you can.
But you won’t be living the same life you did before.
It’s important to plan ahead for this period of your life. Trust me—if you don’t, you may not have much input into the decisions that must be made. It’s also a tremendous burden to push onto your partner, or children, or siblings, or whomever will have to do it for you.
How to plan for your last years
When I do this mental exercise, the first thing that stands out is that it’s a period for which I shouldn’t optimize for doing fun things. Simply put, I know those last few years of my life won’t be fun. They’ll be challenging. I’ll have increasingly little control over my daily life. I won’t need money for travel, as I likely won’t be doing any. In fact, there’s not much “extra” money can do for you.
That doesn’t mean I should spend it all and leave no resources available for those last years. Not at all. Make your last years as good as you can; just don’t count on those years being nearly as good as the previous ones were. Once you cover your basic living costs, you won’t need much more—there’s no additional utility in having a nicer house, or a nicer car, or even a nicer TV.
You’ll want enough resources for good care, and a comfortable place to live, and some basic spending money. But there’s just no marginal benefit in having expensive versions of any of those things. They don’t move the happiness needle at all by that point (and they probably never did to begin with).
What this means to me
So when I think about the last stage of my life—the one that will likely suck—I want to have accomplished everything I wanted before that time arrives.
That means not deferring the experiences I want to have now for the possibly mythical retirement years I am looking forward to. Because not all of those years will be grand. Some—hopefully. But not all of them.
So do more now.
Do it when you can really enjoy it.
And paired with the compounding nature of memories, this will provide you with far greater personal value over the course of your life than waiting until late in life to have the experience.
Better yet, when you do finally reach that stage of older age when you encounter more of the suck, you’ll feel good to know that you predicted this—you did the important stuff early. You front-loaded valuable experiences. You accomplished what you wanted to. You had your grand experiences already, when you could most enjoy them.
I suspect that will make the transition to those sucky years just a bit easier.
This was originally posted on Hey World.
A simple system for managing shared account logins
This post outlines the username, email, and password "code" system that my wife and I use to manage accounts that we both need easy access to.
"Which login do we use for Netflix??”
If you’ve had this convo with your partner before, then this post will be useful.
Here is how Jen & I have solved the problem of accounts/services that have a single login but that we both need to access routinely.
First, we have a shared email alias that forwards incoming messages to both of our main inboxes. Our alias happens to be tied to a website we have together, but you could just as easily set it up using a free email account and filtering rules too.
We use this single email address as the main sign-up address for any account that’s shared: Netflix, Hotels.com, Verizon, etc. So any account information gets sent to both our email accounts. We also have a standard—and unusual—username that we use for any sites that require one.
Our password code system
We use a “code” system for the account passwords. This coding system is both easy-to-remember AND generates a unique password for each account. So if your account gets hacked, they only gain access to that one single password (don’t re-use one password at multiple sites!).
The password is comprised of four things: numbers, symbols, lowercase letters, and uppercase letters—and should be at least 8 characters long. This seems to satisfy the password requirements of most sites.
You then construct a “code” that is based on the name of the website you’re logging into, plus a standard set of symbols and numbers. So while the letters change based on the website, the rest of the password doesn’t. You just need to remember the “formula” for the password code to remember an unlimited number of unique passwords, each geared towards a different site.
So if your password code is:
The first two letters of the website name in uppercase + the number “707” + two “$” symbols + the third and fourth letters of the website name in lowercase.
Then your Netflix password would be: NE707$$tf
And your Hotels.com password would be: HO707$$te
And your Verizon password would be: VE707$$ri
See? All you have to do is remember the ONE password code, which in turn gives you a key for each of the unique passwords. There are countless ways to set this up, using different symbols, more letters or numbers, a different order, etc.
However, here are a few recommendations that will help you meet more site password requirements:
- Start with a letter
- Don’t use 4 or more letters of the site name in a row
- Don’t repeat letters or numbers more than 3 times in a row
- Don’t use “1234” or “password” in the code
Now, you may run across some sites that have odd username or password requirements. So we have a couple alternative password codes and alternative usernames that we can use if ours is already taken.
While we also have all of our login information saved at home, we usually don’t need to look it up. If the normal password code doesn’t work, we simply try the alternative instead.
If you're not keen on using a system like this, you can also use a password app. Our preference is to be able to remember our passwords ourselves and make them easily enterable, however, so we prefer this coding system to a separate app.
Use a free phone number
So what about sharing a phone number for things like store rewards cards? Well, we use a free Google Voice number for that, so that we don’t have to remember whose phone number we use at the grocery store versus the pharmacy and so forth. The number just goes to voicemail, as we don’t want to receive any actual calls there. It's a real number though, so it's accessible if we need it to be.
Google Voice is in the process of ending text message forwarding, but we use a workaround for receiving those important text message login verification codes. It’s a bit trickier, but you can set up message forwarding to your gmail account, and then create a filter rule there that passes the messages along to your shared email address.
So that’s it, that’s the system we use. For any shared account, we know the username, email address, password, and/or phone number we need. It takes a few minutes to set up, but it sure makes things easier in the future. If you have any related tips, or if this type of system has worked for you, let me know.
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From Idea to Adventure: How I plan trips using Notion
This post explains how I organize my From Idea to Adventure trip planning database in Notion. Below, I give you a video tour of my own system, and a short tutorial video of how to set up your own. I am planning on releasing a template version of my system soon at some point (sorry!), as well as a free series of emails to walk you through setting up and using your own version. Hop on the email list for those (see subscribe form below).
If you use a Travel Dashboard like me, you probably use some digital tool to chart out your trips. Not just when you might take them, but your itinerary, who is joining you, and all the other relevant details, too.
I use an app called Notion for this. The free version is sufficient, it works across devices, and also allows for easy collaboration. Notion can be hard to describe; it’s sort of a cross between a note-taking app, a nested database system, and a personal wiki. Because it’s so powerful, it can be a bit intimidating at first. But it's actually pretty easy to use.
My wife and I chose Notion for our Travel Dashboard because it was easy to bring together all of our travel related information: the seasonal trip brainstorming pages (since replaced by the system below), our quests, our Adventure Maps and Adventure Files, our travel budget and trip costs, Life Block Planning, as well as other planning and reference docs. It’s all in one single place, accessible to both of us.
Since then, I’ve rethought how we do our trip planning and built my own travel calendar database instead. It may sound complicated—ugh, a “database” sounds boring and tedious, right?—but it really does make things so, so much easier.
From trip idea to upcoming adventure
The best part of our From Idea to Adventure system is that it does most of the work for you.
You enter some basic trip ideas, whether they’re shorter day trips or longer international adventures, and add a few tags to note which season it works in and whether it’s a short or longer trip. Then, when you run across something useful for that trip, like a blog post, you simply add it to the trip idea using Notion’s simple web clipper. Just a couple clicks saves the page right to your trip.
We add all of our available weekends to the calendar, so we know when we're free. Then, it's just a matter of choosing which trip ideas to add to which free periods.
This is where the system really shines. Because this whole thing is a database, you can easily use custom views to show you just the relevant entries.
For instance, to plan a trip for the July 4th holiday weekend, I simply select the “Summer long weekend trip ideas” database view I set up, and bam, there’s a list of our existing destination ideas.
After choosing an idea, I just add the dates to the trip entry, and it now shows up as an upcoming trip (as opposed to just being an idea we saved). Now that it’s an upcoming trip, I add a few status tags (like “make reservations” or “invite”) so we can see what still needs to be done at a quick glance. One more click loads my long weekend road trip template, which includes all the sections I use, including a default packing list, other more detailed tasks (like turn down the thermostat when we leave), and a dedicated place to upload digital tickets and reservation confirmations.
Each of these trip entries can have countless things nested within it. You could have table databases to lay out your daily itinerary and keep track of expenses, and a place to embed a custom road trip map if you make one. You could have sub-pages dedicated to your travel journaling. Or it could just be a mostly blank page with a few quick notes. It’s all up to you, how detailed you want to be, and what the specific trip requires.
Because each of these trip entries are in this larger database, you can also have custom views for various statuses. I have one view that shows me all the trips where I still need to make reservations, for instance. We have another custom view set up to show us all the long weekends we still have available to plan a trip. We have other views to show us which group trips we’ve talked to friends about, but haven’t quite scheduled yet.
And once the trip dates pass, it automatically moves off the “upcoming trips” view and into the “archive” view, to help keep things tidy and uncluttered. And because we use these trip entries to aggregate all sorts of info about each trip we take—including the final expense tally, links to our photo albums from the trip, our travel journals, and so forth—each of these entries becomes its own Trip Dashboard. And so we also have a view set up to display the trips where we still need to complete these items.
And as you’d expect, having our travel history archived like this is an easy way to implement my Return on Adventure (#BetterROA) system.
A quick tour of my own From Idea to Adventure system
Here is a short, rather informal walk-through of my own system. I've made some additional modifications since then and plan on recording a more detailed screencast in the future.
How to build your own
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The only possible way to drive directly from Missouri to Kentucky
My questing buddy Tom Thrash and I both have a quest to cross all 107 state borders—the boundaries where two US states meet via a land or river crossing.
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One of them is particularly sneaky—the tiny border shared by Kentucky and Missouri.
There are a number of border anomalies along the Mississippi River, as its course shifted after state boundaries were originally established. This has led some parts of states to suddenly find themselves disconnected from the rest of their state by the main channel of the river. The most famous cases of this are probably Carter Lake, Iowa and the "Kentucky Bend," a finger of Kentucky that is now only accessible by road from Tennessee:

In a similarly odd fate, there is no bridge over the Mississippi between the states of Kentucky and Missouri. US Highways 51 and 62 nearly connect the two states, but happen to meet in a sliver of Illinois, a painfully short distance upstream of the Ohio and Mississippi confluence and the northern start of the KY-MO border. Both highway bridges cross less than a mile from the tri-point. Coincidentally, not too far upstream on the Mississippi from this point lies a bit of Illinois that shares a similar fate as the Kentucky Bend—you can only drive there from Missouri.

Ok, so there's no bridge across the KY-MO border, but the small Dorena-Hickman Ferry does provide cross-boundary access. Many believe this is the only direct route between these two states. However, for the purposes of this quest, border crossings don't count if you're in a plane or on a boat.
So perhaps there are only 106 objectives in this quest instead of the original 107? Not so fast, my friend.
It turns out there is at least one road that does cross the KY-MO border. It's on what’s known as “Wolf Island Number 5,” and was part of a lawsuit between the two states that was decided by the US Supreme Court back way back in 1870 in a case called Missouri v Kentucky.
This island stood in the middle of the Mississippi River when the two state boundaries were formalized. Eventually, however, the river shifted its course eastward. And sometime after that, as the river flowed further east, the old river bend was partially filled in, connecting the island to the riverbank on the Missouri side. Wolf Island is now a peninsula, consisting primarily of some farming fields, sandy areas, and what appears to be a single outbuilding for farming equipment. The Supreme Court case held that Kentucky should maintain control of the area, even though the Mississippi River was intended to be the dividing line between the states. And so the state boundary remains where it was prior.

A county-maintained dirt road—Wolf Island Road—now unceremoniously crosses the boundary onto the peninsula. As far as I can tell, it's the only publicly accessible land crossing between the two states. The roadway is county-maintained and listed in the state's database and GIS maps. In short, it looks like a legit border crossing for the purposes of this quest.

There is one additional roadway, according to Google Maps at least, that crosses the border a bit further upstream onto what is labeled "Island Nos 2 3 and 4." But the roadway is not shown on the Kentucky Transportation Cabinet's "Rural and Secondary Roads" or "Local Roads" GIS maps. Given this telling omission, plus a closed gate as seen on satellite imagery from Google Maps, leads me to believe it's a private route.
Nonetheless, it appears that there is at least one legal land crossing from Kentucky to Missouri. I'm not the only one to discover this. Here's what the crossing looked like in April 2014, courtesy of the Howder Family:

Tom and I are considering reserving this crossing to complete together as our last objective for our respective border quests. It seems like the most memorable one to finish on.
I can't wait to mark it off!
Some other state border oddities
There are three other state borders that you can't cross in a vehicle: Illinois/Michigan, Michigan/Minnesota, and New York/Rhode Island.
The New York/Rhode Island one is especially interesting to me, as I hadn't ever considered that Connecticut doesn't share a border with international waters. But because of New York's claims to Long Island and Fishers Island, and Rhode Island's claim to Fort Mansfield, Connecticut only gets roughly half of the Long Island Sound. If you would have asked me if Connecticut was bordered on all sides by other states, I would not have answered yes. It seems like a great pub trivia question: "How many of the original 13 states are bordered on all sides by another state?"
This was also surprising to me: the Delaware/New Jersey border features only a singlebridge crossing—the Delaware Memorial Bridge that services I-295. Ok fine, it's technically two one-way bridges, but the broader point stands.
However, due to an accident of history, there are now two Delaware exclaves on the wrong side of the Delaware River. This isn't a case of a river changing course though. Instead, it's a result of Delaware's Twelve Mile Circle, the unusual way of defining a state border, and a dredging project. Here's an explanation:
The definition of the northern boundary of the State is unusual. Most of the boundary between the States of Delaware and Pennsylvania was originally defined by an arc extending 12 miles, a.k.a. the Twelve-Mile Circle, from the cupola of the courthouse in the city of New Castle.
This border extends all the way east to the low-tide mark on the New Jersey shore of the Delaware River, then continues south along the shoreline until it again reaches the 12-mile arc in the south. Then the boundary continues in a more conventional way in the middle of the main channel of the river.For this reason, from the Pennsylvania-Delaware line on south, the border between New Jersey and Delaware is not the middle of the River, but the edge of New Jersey's shore.
Apparently, future dredging projects deposited their loads on the New Jersey side of the river, expanding the landmass there and exceeding the original boundary that was set at the low tide line. The result was Artificial Island, whose tip now extends into Delaware. Similarly, Finns Point also extends beyond the original border line. Neither of these land borders seems to have a road you can use to cross, but it appears you could do so on foot.
This was originally posted on Hey World.